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		<description><![CDATA[Did you read my last blog entry?  It was entitled, “YOU are the Holy Grail” in which I wrote about the three expressions or aspects of YOU and I used the analogy of a ship to make the distinctions between those three versions of “you.”   I referred to them as “me, myself and I.”  Let’s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="tweetmeme_button" style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://api.tweetmeme.com/share?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftransformationaltrading.com%2Fblog%2Fyou-are-the-holy-grail-part-2%2F"><img src="http://api.tweetmeme.com/imagebutton.gif?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftransformationaltrading.com%2Fblog%2Fyou-are-the-holy-grail-part-2%2F" height="61" width="51" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Did you read my last blog entry?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>It was entitled, <em>“YOU are the Holy Grail”</em> in which I wrote about the three expressions or aspects of YOU and I used the analogy of a ship to make the distinctions between those three versions of “you.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>I referred to them as <em>“me, myself and I.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></em>Let’s go into greater detail on that idea.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“I” as the “<strong>BIG I</strong>” is the omniscient character up in the crow’s nest of the ship with A Higher Point of View.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>This YOU is the Holy Grail that everyone is looking for…outside of themselves. The “me” is “the Captain,” which is the you that is in charge of making choices and decisions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>“Myself” refers to the “little i’s.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>The “little i’s” are the saboteurs; they are the parts that have faulty subconscious programming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">So, in the last article I said that the <strong>“BIG I” IS the Holy Grail.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></strong>In <strong><em>this</em></strong> article I will emphasize the fact that if the Holy Grail is <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">YOU</span></strong><span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"> </span>it’s imperative that you <em>“Know Yourself!”</em><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>That phrase is the inscription that was written on the Oracle of Apollo of Delphi, Greece, 6<sup>th</sup> century B.C., so the notion has been around a long time.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">And WHY is it so important to know yourself?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>That’s a fair question.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I repeat &#8211; because <strong>YOU</strong> are the Holy Grail. Your power and clear decisions come from within, from an <em>“Inner Self”</em> that is powerful and wise.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You must learn to use your strengths more effectively and at the same time develop an awareness of your weaknesses and how to overcome them.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Interestingly enough, you might automatically assume that you know yourself, but that is definitely NOT the case.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You actually have to <strong><em>STUDY</em></strong> yourself! This is why there is such an emphasis on Trading Psychology at the Van Tharp Institute.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">An aspect of knowing <em>“Your <strong>SELF</strong>”</em> is gaining an understanding of your personality type.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Your personality type can cause you to <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">win or lose in trading;</em> you might have heard Van and I discussing this on one of his Trading Psychology CDs.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">We discuss both the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator as well as the Enneagram.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I believe that between these two personality typology systems, all behavior can be accounted for.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The Myers-Briggs deals with “normal” behavior, whereas the Enneagram covers healthy, average and unhealthy behaviors.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Carl Jung, a noted Swiss psychiatrist developed a theory of personality to explain the normal differences between healthy people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>He calls it your <em>“Psychological Type.”</em> Based on his observations, Jung concluded that differences in behavior result from people’s INBORN TENDENCIES to use their minds in different ways.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>As people act on these tendencies, they develop patterns of behavior.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>When YOU know your pattern of behavior, you can work at your peak.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Jung’s psychological type theory defines eight different patterns of normal behavior, or types.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>These patterns of normal behavior result in what Jung and the Myers-Briggs Type indicator call <strong><em>“preferences”</em></strong> which are divided into for groupings, or <em>“dichotomies.”</em><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>It is vital to gain a very basic understanding of how your personality strengths and weaknesses impact your trading.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">In this article, I can only briefly introduce the four dichotomies of the Myers-Briggs: Extravert/Introvert; Sensing/Intuition; Thinking/Feeling; and Judging/Perceiving.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Each dichotomy has its inherent strengths and weaknesses that need to be understood through further study and is a entirely different discussion; however, I will present a simple explanation of what each dichotomy reveals.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">The Extravert/Introvert dichotomy has to do with where people (traders) PREFER to <strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">focus</span></em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> <em>their attention and get energy</em></span></strong>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The extravert is energized by the outer environment and people and likes to talk things out, whereas the introverts are energized by their inner world and like to work out ideas by thinking them through.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">The Sensing/Intuition dichotomy refers to the way traders PREFER to <strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">take in</span></em></strong> <strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">information</span></em></strong>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The Sensates are factual, concrete and focus on details and specifics.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The Intuitives see the big picture and patterns.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">The Thinking/Feeling dichotomy has to do with how traders PREFER to <strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">make </span></em></strong><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">decisions</span></em></strong>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The thinking types are objective, and solve problems with logic and analysis.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The feelers are subjective, display empathy and won’t make a decision until they assess its impact on people.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">The Judging/Perceiving dichotomy deals with how traders <strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">deal with the outer world</span></em></strong>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The Judgers (<em>having nothing to do with the word “judgmental”)</em> PREFER to operate in a systematic way, get closure and want control over their life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The Perceivers like to stay open to change, let life happen and stay open to possibilities.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">So, what does personality type have to do with trading?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Well, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">personality type</span> influences your thoughts, emotions and actions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>And because your trading performance is driven by your thoughts, emotions, and actions (TEA), they MUST be consistent with achieving <span style="text-decoration: underline;">good trading results!</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>Have you ever been in the market and not worked your plan because some emotion came up and seemed to “take over” you thoughts? That’s one of those “little i’s” at work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>That is a weakness that both needs to be and <strong>CAN</strong> be overcome.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Let me give you an example of how a personality strength/weakness can actually lead one astray and away from his/her system.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>I was working with a trader a few months<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>ago who was having difficulty following his system. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A lack of trust had arisen that<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">was related to his being a <strong><em>“Thinking” </em></strong>type on the Myers-Briggs.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Usually, we see thinking and analysis as wonderful traits and positive assets for a trader.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>However, that <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">thinking</span></em> <strong>CAN </strong>be a double-edged sword. </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Let me explain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>For this trader, sometimes his “thinking” was causing him to actually NOT follow the rules of his system. What happened was that when events transpired in the market, instead of just following his system, he would begin to OVER-analyze the situation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The more he analyzed, he would come to the conclusion that <em>“he knew better”</em> than his system, throw out the rules and consequently lose money.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>We had to work with the part of himself that was relying his own thoughts and over-analytical assessments instead of his tried and true (back-tested) system.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Through our work together, he learned to use his analysis to his advantage as well as to trust his system to do what it was designed to do.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Both Van and I emphasize the importance of knowing your personality strengths. When you are armed with that knowledge, you can then capitalize on your strengths and eliminate your weaknesses.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Of course, it takes self-understanding AND inner work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>However, the reward is that you then have a definite EDGE in trading. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Have you already discovered through your own experience that your personality weaknesses are costing you money? Are you ready to take charge and fully utilize the YOU that is your personal <em>“Holy Grail”? </em></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">I have alluded to the Myers-Briggs as one system of personality typing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>There is another typology system called The Enneagram, which literally reveals a “MAP” of trading psychology.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>It is important to be able to locate where you currently are on that map and to know how to move closer to your destination of consistently profitable trading.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I will write about the “map” of the Enneagram in a future addition of the newsletter.</span></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[YOU are the Holy Grail
by
Libby Adams, Ph.D.
What more common theme is there in trading than people looking for the Holy Grail?    How many times do we hear these remarks from traders: “If I could JUST find the right system.” “If the market would just stop going sideways.”  “If I could just get the right entry.”
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<p align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: center; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">by</span></span></p>
<p align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: center; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Libby Adams, Ph.D.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">What more common theme is there in trading than people looking for the Holy Grail?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">    </span>How many times do we hear these remarks from traders: “If I could JUST find the right system.” “If the market would just stop going sideways.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>“If I could just get the right entry.”</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The market goes up—some people are making money while others are losing money.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The market goes down—some people are making money while others are losing money.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">How do we explain the discrepancy in results?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The market is the market.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>How does one person make money while another is on the other end of the trade, losing money?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Same market.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Same day.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Or how about this one: Two people are at the same workshop; they learn the exact same system and buy the same software.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>One goes out and makes money, and the other loses.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">What is the only variable in all of these examples? <span style="text-decoration: underline;">The individual.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">We can’t expect the market to behave a certain way, but we can expect YOU to behave a certain way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The only variable is YOU.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">But the definition of “you” is not as clear as some might think.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>Let me explain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>Most people have some awareness of a variety of “yous” that are talking in their head.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Perhaps we could call them “me, myself, and I.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Let’s examine these three more closely.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in; tab-stops: list .75in;"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">I. </span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The “Big I”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span><em>(The Scout Up in the Crow’s Nest)</em></span></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">In our “me, myself, and I” equation, this would be the “I”<strong>. </strong><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>We could say that when it leaves your body, you’d be considered dead.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>One of my 28-day course graduates, who was an ER doctor, told a story of a woman who had flatlined on the table.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>When she came to, she was recounting details of what the doctors and nurses had been doing in their attempt to revive her.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The doctor said there was no way these things could have been seen from any vantage point other than floating above the scene.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Many people refer to this “I” as their Soul, Spirit, Higher Self, or Conscience.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>It is a power source that is invisible and undeniably powerful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>An example of how this “I” operates is when we say, “I am happy to return this wallet to the lost and found.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Or “I know that Fred was being rude, but I am going to be the bigger person.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>This “I” always takes you along the path of the high road.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">If we were to use a ship metaphor, this <strong>“I”</strong> would be like a scout up in the crow’s nest of a ship who has a broad vantage point and can then communicate his observations to the captain below.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>This “bird’s eye view” assists the Captain to make good decisions that generate desired results.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The ship steers a good course, as opposed to ending up on the rocks.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in; tab-stops: list .75in;"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">II.</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 7pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The Conscious Mind or “regular I”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>(The Captain of the Ship)</span></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">In our triad of “me, myself, and I” this would constitute the “me” aspect.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>We refer to this as your conscious mind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>It uses logic and analysis to make choices and has free will.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>It might be what you call the captain of the ship.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You make decisions such as <em>“Should I trade the S&amp;P or do I prefer the Russell.</em>”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Your conscious mind is your “decider.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You use this aspect a LOT in trading. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in; tab-stops: list .75in;"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">III.</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 7pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The little “i”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>(Some Members of the Crew Having a Mutiny)</span></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">This is the “myself” portion of our “me, myself and I” equation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>I write it as “<em>my self”</em>, separating the words.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">   </span>This “separated self” or little “i” is actually a program that has separated from the <em>Big I </em>during our formative years as a result believing faulty and erroneous information.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>This misinformation might have come from the outside when a parent remarked, <em>“You’ll never</em> <em>amount to anything”</em> and you believed it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>From that time forward, this person might not try out for the school play or go out for track thinking&#8221; I won’t make it anyway, so why try?&#8221;</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Another source of faulty information has its origin in our own self-talk:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>things we tell ourselves.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>For example, when we volunteered a wrong answer in school and the teacher loudly proclaimed that our answer was <em>way</em> off track, we might have thought “How could I be so stupid?” and decided never to participate in school again.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">These programs continue to fire off unconsciously until we do our inner work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>That is exactly why Van’s curriculum includes the so much education about trading psychology. Traders need to know how to discern which “I” is pulling the trigger when they trade and what to do if the wrong one is running the show!!</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The Holy Grail, then, is trading with the scout and the captain in alignment—that is, the “I and me” in agreement.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>In our ship metaphor, this translates to the scout shouting down sound information from the crow’s nest followed by the captain making good decisions based upon it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>That IS the Holy Grail.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You need look no further than within. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: auto 0in;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">The catch is that we must clear out and rid ourselves of the little “i”s steering us into the rocks. It is not useful to hear thoughts like, “What if this is another loser like the last two?” and then miss an opportunity by not taking the trade.</span></span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">About Libby Adams</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">: Carol &#8220;Libby&#8221; Adams, Ph.D., D.D., author of <em>Voices of Selves</em>, is the Executive Director of the Academy of Self-Knowledge. She is a highly skilled presenter and educator, having taught many years in the public school system. She is a Master Practitioner of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and specializes in Transformational Meditation™, a process she has developed and used successfully with hundreds of students over the past ten years. To learn more, visit, www.transformationaltrading.com.</span></p>
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